S-E-X. the big word, the grand action. Sometimes it feels like everything we do now is garnered towards sex, or at least uses sex as a way to promote something. And while that’s all well and good. A good number of us still lack the basic know how’s around the acts of pleasure. Funny right? Everything revolves around it, and yet somehow, no one really knows about it. So, for the next few weeks, we’re going to deviate from our weekly erotica to learn some great and healthy tips about the ancient acts of pleasure.
The first tip I would offer is health, health, health! This can definitely never be overstated. I always advise that people get tested once every three months, or after a partner change, whichever comes first. Partner change does not necessarily mean intercourse, oral sex is one way many infections are spread, so stay safe and get tested.
The second Tip I offer today, would be communication. Communication among partners, regardless of the number, is key! Whether its foreplay, or intercourse, discussing fetishes, or simply fun ideas, communication ensures that everyone involved is getting maximum pleasure. It may seem awkward to constantly ask, “how’s that?” or “is that okay?”. So try to switch it up with more listening. Listen to your partners’ moans and noises, what actions do they respond to more, what actions do they not seem to like, follow those bodily guides and you’re sure to be rewarded.
The third tip is to be open, you don’t have to do anything that makes you too uncomfortable, but be willing to explore new things, and see where It takes you. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with vanilla, but as the saying goes, don’t knock it, till you try it.