Its Valentines season and many of us are looking for ways to spice up things in the bedroom. We’ve read the fifty shades books and a few other BDSM related content. However, we aren’t certain what we want to do? Or how dark we want to take it? So, here are a few guides to initiating kinkier sex this valentine’s day.
Kinky Lingerie: nothing sets the mood like a perfect set of lingerie. If you’re looking to step up your game this valentine’s day, you’re going to want to get the right lingerie for the occasion. Try lingerie made with leather. It’s dominating and sexy. Can’t afford real leather, or just not interested in the ethics of it? Try faux leather or vegan leather, both are awesome substitutes that set the mood regardless.
Colors, colors, colors! Go for bolder colors in your lingerie choice this valentine’s day. Try red, dark blue, or the slimming, and always reliable, black. If certain materials feel too much for your first time exploring the darker arts, whether you decide on a simple bralette, or a cotton teddy, the color of your lingerie can let your partner know you mean business.
Lighting, From the color of your room to the color of your lingerie, lighting is everything. Dark blue, and green hues are known to promote relaxation, which can help you and your partner ease into the mood, and new sexual territory.
These three tips are sure to set the mood for a kinkier and more enjoyable valentine’s day!